reflections from the waiting room

I know some of you have been trying to keep up with our most recent medical "journey"...I'll give you a brief catching up..... the second week in July Josh had what we thought was just a nasty stomach bug, but it didn't get better in fact it seemed to get worse. About 4 days into it he started having some abdominal pain that became localized and we (even the medical staff) were pretty sure it was appendicitis. But that would have been too easy..... The results came back that his appendix was fine. He had some inflammation in his colon (attributed  mostly to the stomach bug) and gallstones.
 Now, my non medical degrees brain said let's rule out the gallbladder first since that's a relatively "easy" fix. Instead, he was set up with a GI Dr. who when asked again seeing as there is family history of gallbladder stones. Instead he decided to order a colonoscopy for Josh the following week (stating that he thought it was intestinal). He also started him on prednisone to help with inflammation....it didn't.
Josh was still in pain:  Nauseated,taking pain meds, somehow managing To go to work ,but that was about it.  He would come home and just have to sit, being in too much pain to do much of anything else.

At the follow up apt last Tuesday (8/13), the GI Dr tells us he still doesn't know what's going on but wants to start Josh on another, stronger medication that is usually used to treat Crohns. When I asked him if thats what he thought Josh had, he told us no, "I'm not sure what is wrong,  but let's try this medication for a few months and see if it helps".......I (again) brought up the gallbladder/stones saying family history etc..shouldn't we at least have a consult and rule it out if nothing else?   He then snapped at me saying" HE would decide when and if to go and see general surgery and HE didnt think it was the time.".
 Well, I was not impressed at this point, and basically he and I were starting to get into a power struggle...I guess that he is not usually questioned, or used to having someone disagree with what he says, and he didnt like it.
I went back to work and went right over to my buddies at general surgery. I told them what happened at GI and asked if they could schedule Josh for a consult with one of their surgeons.....they got him in 3 days later. Josh saw the surgeon at 9am on friday where he did an exam, looked at all the tests and labs that had been done, ordered more labs, and did an ultrasound of the gallbladder....by 3pm the same day Josh had a diagnosis (choleocystitis), a plan (surgery monday), and an escape plan(er, surgery sooner if pain got to be too much) I was beyond frustrated that Josh had to suffer so long becuase the GI dr didnt want to "release" him to another department.(that it took almost 6 weeks) but thrilled that my poor husband had answers, and was reassured that yes something is wrong and it can be fixed. He was literally shutting down physically as well as mentally. One can only have that kind of constant pain with no relief or answers for so long without thinking you might be going crazy.
Saturday morning we went to the ED. Josh had had alot of pain, and we were hoping they would be able to do the surgery. Unfortunately I got to argue with a resident who didnt think Josh even needed to be there ("we dont like to do surgery on the weekends...really? isnt that kind of your job?)...after about 5 minutes of him talking down to me and arguing with me I told him I was done. I told him to go page the surgeon we saw yesterday. he did, and I was able to speak to him as well.  We decided to hold off on surgery that day,admit josh to be able to monitor infection and pain,keep him hydrated and take it day by day.
if surgery needed to be done sooner fine, but if not he would be "better" by Monday. Today (monday) he had surgery. he went in around 2:30 and was done almost exactly one hour later. Im sitting here waiting to go see him in recovery.... Everything went well, they removed the gallbladder and sent "stuff" to pathology. They said there was some inflammation behind where the gallbladder was that could be some beginnings of crohns or IBS, or could just be from the gallbladder irritating it due to inflammation. 1 hour after surgery Josh had color back in his face, and even told me that his body felt better..... This has been a journey, and as much as I would like to say its all over, and downhill from here, something tells me that its not over. But one thing is for sure, Im here for my hubby, whether that means getting him pepsi, pushing his wheelchair, making him get up and walk around, or flat out advocating for him when doctors try to push him aside.... ----------------------------------------- I'll keep you all posted on his recovery process.

July 31st? how did this happen?

I feel like every time I plan to keep up with blogging and sharing all the craziness that is my life, something comes up and blogging takes the back seat again... Athena was really sick the week of her birthday, thankfully the blockage made its way out on its own and shes been fine since. About a week after that josh had what we thought was a stomach bug (a nasty one too) but after 4 days he started having pain which became localized sending him to the dr, and then the ED with suspected appendicitis. The CT scans came back surprising everyone showing his appendix was fine, he had some puzzling inflammation in his intestine as well as stones in his gallbladder. ...interesting......That was on a monday. That friday he saw GI who scheduled a colonoscopy (Josh was not thrilled about that) for the following wednesday. Josh did amazingly, but through all this his pain has been constant. Prasie the Lord he has not had to miss work though all this, but by the time he gets home he is in so much pain he cant do anything which of course frustrates him. We are going on the third week of this saga. next week he is scheduled to see a surgeon to consult about the gallbladder. His PCP called him today telling him that it looks like he has either crohns or IBD and he will start prednizone to see if that takes care of the inflammation. (I know, why did they not start him on it 3 weeks ago?--your guess is as good as mine, especially since I asked about it with GI) So, right now thats where everything stands as far as a DX and all the "fun" we have been having.... Next weekend my SIL,her kiddos, her mom and sister will be here for a visit, and I cant wait! Im looking forward to our semi-annual shopping trip to OUAC and Goodwill, and I cant wait to see my (not so) little niece! :) Im sitting here at work, looking out the windows at the GORGEOUS sunny weather and feeling a little bummed that Im in here. The worst part is that I have all my billing completely done for the day and other than the few patients that are scheduled to come in, I dont really have anything to keep me busy for the next 5 hours :( Seriously thinking about taking a longish lunch today.... Tomorrow and Friday my kids have VBS which mean I have 3 hours to myself both mornings!!!! Ill spend tomorrow cleaning but friday I dont know, maybe I will go back to bed, maybe I will go shopping....the possibilities are endless...this never happens!! Im looking forward to playing and having fun in the afternoons though :) Well, its almost time for my lunch break so I will end this post for now...I will continue to keep you posted on Joshs situation, but if you think of us, send up a prayer. His pain is constant, and honestly, I am just tired and worn out....physically,emotionally I feel really spent.