update on life in the ralph family....

Ok, so it has been quite awhile since I last posted, and there are many reasons that I just wont bore you with.....
So, Christmas was fun, my parents came to delaware and we all went to my brothers house to celebrate, and it was nice. My husband spoiled me way more than he should have but I must say I have been enjoying my kindle!  I would be enjoying my footie jammies as well but I left those in the dryer :(
There have been a few changes since thanksgiving. As I posted before My job that I had ended the monday after thanksgiving and after applying to jobs both in delaware and in vt I got a call for a phone interview for a job in vt....they liked me and wanted to do a second interview jan 3.  so the kids and I made plans to stay at moms and go to the interview.......after much discussion and planning Josh and I decided that rather than drive to vt for the interview and drive back to delaware and then back to vt if I got the job, that I would just stay here with the kids and work, and we would figure out visiting each other and stuff as we go....well, I was offered the full time job at goodwill but was hesitant to take it since I was applying for a pt job right here in williston.  I was offered the job at evergreen family health and it was so ordered by God-- the girl who was working before me left after a couple of days because she was too overwhelmed (had never worked in a medical office before) and the timing was perfect, I got here interviewed and am excited about this job that I will be starting monday!  Needless to say I turned down the full time job.
I miss Josh.   It's funny, last summer when he went to delaware to start his job and get settled there, I missed him, but in a way was kind of glad for the space.....we had gone through so much and it had been affecting our relationship, and well, the space was a good thing.  After me and the kids got to delaware, Josh and I grew so much closer. we only had each other, and we started over again so to speak and it was so good......but it makes me miss him so much more. I am lonely at night and miss talking and snuggling with him....I think he would say he misses me too  :)
It is weird, when we moved to delaware I never thought I would be xcited to come back, especially for a job! but back in November we prayed and asked the Lord to be very very clear, and show us specifically what we were to do, so now we are waiting again for his direction.
so thats whats been going on for us. I am back at my parents, and missing my hubby TONS!!!
Please pray that these next transitions will go smoothly.  I am sure my kids will be ok when I go to work, but they have had me 24/7 since august, and it will be a bit of an adjustment.  also, I am going to need someone to watch them on Wednesdays asap since my mom works and I cant afford to really pay someone....so pray that I will find the right person to watch them, or two people half days I dont know that is what I am working on right now.......