Well, After posting yesterday and then chatting with my mommy on the phone I decided that when the kids were in bed I was going to go out (after Josh got home or course!) So, my silver lining was that athena fell asleep at 6:30 -she was REALLY tired!- and caleb was asleep by 7pm so when my hubby got home a little after that we chatted for a few minutes and he sent me out the door to have fun. I went into dover and explored their once upon a child, found some things for the kids that they needed, and then since it wasnt even 8pm I decided to find the walmart.....I wandered in there for a bit, picked up a few things that we needed and then decided to go home. I felt 40 pounds lighter after. I know that might not make any sense to some of you, but by the time I got home, I just felt like myself again. I thanked my hubby for understanding and "letting" me go out, and he said "don't worry about it, I know you need time to yourself too" We are both growing through this move and I am so happy that it seems we are growing together. I will be honest the first couple of weeks, I wasnt sure, but we worked through that, and I am trying and I know he is trying and we are seeing the evidence of that :)So anyway, this morning when I woke up (at 5:45AM!) I was happy to see my little boy, and thankful for the snuggle time alone on the couch with him instead of resentful that I had to be up before the sun.
So, that was my lesson-don't wait until you feel like the world in closing in on you before you tell your hubby, and get some alone time to recharge your mommy batteries :)
I am looking forward to today with my kids, I am thinking about taking them to this place for a halloween game time for kids......if not there are plenty of other things that we can find to do in this nice sunny place :)
Enjoy your day, enjoy your kids, and enjoy your time! Happy saturday :)
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